♥THE PROBLEM
- Recognize the problem: did you ignore her when she was sad, gossip about her, or accidentally send off the wrong message? Know what needs to be fixed before you try anything;)
♥LET IT COOL
- just take some time off until she gets over crying, giving you mean looks, avoiding you, etc. Wait until she's at a level where she can at least make eye contact before you approach her:)
♥TAKE RESPONSiBiLiTY
- let's face it, we all think we're saints...... even if you believe you had no part in what happened and you didn't do anything wrong, say you did. Don't give a crap apology like "I'm sorry you said I was annoying", but instead point out your faults like "I understand where you were coming from and I was being annoying at your party. I'm really sorry about that." Explain how you feel.:)
♥LET HER THINK
- She's not going to accept you immediately, and, if it was bad enough, she might not at all. Show you're truly sorry and really do want to be her friend again, but give her space and the thinking time to figure it out.
♥REGAIN TRUST
- She won't trust you at first. Listen, and give her some of your trust. If you tell her something like a secret she gains a bit of "power" in a way.
♥REMEMBER
- Do things that show why you're friends in the first place. Take her out to Mc Donalds, go to the shops, etc. Anything that's something you usually do and both love, or something she loves;)
♥DON'T TALK ABOUT IT
- If you keep bringing it up all the time, she's going to keep remembering it and keep thinking about why she doesn't really like you. If you just keep quiet about it, it creates less of a problem. Keep calm:)
♥BE NORMAL
- Don't treat her any differently. Acting totally different isn't a good thing-she liked you because of how you acted before. If you weren't trustworthy, change that and nothing else.
♥DONT DO IT AGAIN!!!!!!!
- After it happened, do anything you can to not make it happen again. If you need to change, do it and don't fall back on it again. The more fights you have, the shorter a friendship will last:'(
I know its a short post but whatevas!!!!!! hope you found it helpful! Please comment and follow:) xx
Lucy xoxoxox
